THE HIKAYAT

يا أيها الناس إنا خلقناكم من ذكر وأنثى وجعلناكم شعوبا وقبائل لتعارفوا إن أكرمكم عند الله أتقاكم إن الله عليم خبير

"O mankind, We created you from a male and a female and made you nations and tribes that ye may know each other-know. Verily the noblest among you the sight of Allah is the most pious among you. Surely Allah is Knowing, All. "AlHujurat, 49: 13

إنما المؤمنون إخوة فأصلحوا بين أخويكم واتقوا الله لعلكم ترحمون (10) يا أيها الذين آمنوا لا يسخر قوم من قوم عسى أن يكونوا خيرا منهم ولا نساء من نساء عسى أن يكن خيرا منهن ولا تلمزوا أنفسكم ولا تنابزوا بالألقاب بئس الاسم الفسوق بعد الإيمان ومن لم يتب فأولئك هم الظالمون (11) يا أيها الذين آمنوا اجتنبوا كثيرا من الظن إن بعض الظن إثم ولا تجسسوا ولا يغتب بعضكم بعضا أيحب أحدكم أن يأكل لحم أخيه ميتا فكرهتموه واتقوا الله إن الله تواب رحيم

"People believe that the real brothers. Therefore make peace (fix link) between the two brothers, and fear of God, that ye may receive mercy.

O ye who believe, do a bunch of male degrading another set, maybe a laugh is better than them. And do not also set another set of degrading women, may be the despised it better. And do not like to criticize yourself and do not call with a mat containing ridicule. Worst of the call is (call) after bad faith and whoever does not repent, then they are the ones who do wrong.

O ye who believe, avoid most ancient of the blue (suspicion), because most of the suspect's ancient sin. And do not be looking for bad people and do not gossip with one another. Is there one among you who like to eat the flesh of a dead brother? So you would have disgusted him. And fear Allah. For Allah is Oft Repentance, the Most Merciful. "Al-Hujurat, 49: 10-12

Appeared cheerful face (SMILE)

عن أبي ذر قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم تبسمك في وجه أخيك لك صدقة, وأمرك بالمعروف ونهيك عن المنكر صدقة, وإرشادك الرجل في أرض الضلال لك صدقة, وبصرك للرجل الرديء البصر لك صدقة, وإماطتك الحجر والشوكة والعظم عن الطريق لك صدقة, وإفراغك من دلوك في دلو أخيك لك صدقة.

From Abu Dhar, he had said: the Prophet Muhammad has said: "smile on your brother's face is charity, kindness and invitation to pencegahanmu against evil is a charity, clue to the person who asks you astray is charity, will penyingkiranmu stones, thorns, and bones of the road is a charity, penuanganmu of the vessel bejanamu your brother is charity. "HR at-Tirmidhi.

Spreading GREETINGS

عن أبي هريرة قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم والذي نفسي بيده لا تدخلوا الجنة حتى تؤمنوا ولا تؤمنوا حتى تحابوا ألا أدلكم على أمر إذا أنتم فعلتموه تحاببتم أفشوا السلام بينكم وفي الباب عن عبد الله بن سلام وشريح بن هانئ عن أبيه وعبد الله بن عمرو والبراء وأنس وابن عمر قال أبو عيسى هذا حديث حسن صحيح

From Abu Hurairah, he had said: the Prophet Muhammad has said: "By the One who himself was in his hands, you will not go to heaven so you believe. And you will not believe (perfectly) so that you love each other. Shall I tell you something if you do, you will undoubtedly love each other? Spread greetings of you. "HR at-Tirmidhi

إن السلام اسم من أسماء الله تعالى, وضعه في الأرض, فأفشوا السلام بينكم.

"Verily, As-Salam (The Giver of Safety) is one of the names of the names of Allah the Most High that put him on earth. Then scatter one of you. "Ash-Saheehah (I: 184)

يا أيها الناس! أفشوا السلام, وأطعموا الطعام, وصلوا الأرحام, وصلوا بالليل والناس نيام; تدخلوا الجنة بسلام.

"O people! Spread greetings, give them a meal (the needy), connect kinship, and The prayer at night when people are sleeping, surely you will enter Paradise in peace. "Ash-Saheehah (II: 569)

اعبدوا الرحمن, وأطعموا الطعام, وأفشوا السلام; تدخلوا الجنة بسلام.

"Worship the Merciful, give food, scatter greetings, (surely) you will enter Paradise in peace." Ash-Saheehah (II: 571)

عن أبي هريرة, عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: "تهادوا تحابوا".

From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet SAW, he has said: "The prize-menghadiahilah you, (surely) you will love each other." Bukhari

عن أنس عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال لا يؤمن أحدكم حتى يحب لأخيه ما يحب لنفسه

From Anas radi anhu, the Prophet SAW, he has said: "Not perfect faith that one of you so that he is: love for his brother what he loves for himself (empathy for his brother). "Bukhari

"Not one of those us who are not fond of the younger and older honor." HR.MUSLIM

1. Lower his gaze to the opposite sex

Allah says which means, "Say to the believing men: Hendahlah they bowed his view and maintain his cock." (Surah an-Nur: 30). Allah also says which means, "And to the woman katakalah believe: Let them lowered his gaze and maintain his cock." (Surah an-Nur: 31)

2. Not berkhulwat

Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Let not a man two-pair (khulwat) with a woman except with mahromnya. then indeed the ketidanya is syeithan "(Narrated by Bukhari & Muslim)

3. Not touching the opposite sex

In a hadith, Aisha radi 'anha said, "By Allah, the Prophet's hand never touched the hand of the woman at all though when allegiance (oath of allegiance to the leader)." (Narrated by Bukhari). This is because it touches the opposite sex who is not mahromnya is one of the things which are forbidden in Islam. Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If someone's head pierced with iron needles, (that) is still better than to touch a woman who is not lawful for him." (Narrated by sanad Thabrani hasan)

If looked at only forbidden, of course forbidden in touch more because the temptation of course is much greater.

Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah sets for kids adam share of adultery, which would be about it. The eye is to look at adultery, adultery is spoken to speak, while the souls willing and dreaming, and vulva (genitals) that will confirm or deny. "(Narrated by Bukhari & Muslim). If such can be compared to adultery is a room that has a lot of doors are layered, then the people who are dating is someone who has had all of the key. Whenever he could get. Is not dating when he did not escape the eye of adultery with a free view? Is not the courtship he often softened, soften the sound in front of his girlfriend? Are not people always think about and imagine dating her boyfriend situation? So farjinya will soon follow. Finally regret regret remained. Time can not be persuaded to go back so that he becomes a figure that is still pure and not tainted. Satan was rejoicing over the success of his efforts .... bis-showaab walloohu knows best ...